My reflections

Hmmm finally I felt like to add some entry. As most of you probably known already, I got married on 1st of May 2009. It was kind of suprise to some. But really would like to thanks all for the wishes, coming to the receptions and tons of great presents. It has been a bless for me and the families.

Many people were suprised when I said I am gonna get married. All these years there was no inclination and all the suggestions were rebuked at the earliest. I just have a philosophy that, I want to ensure myself are in better shape before committing any relationship. Honestly I put to myself a time limit, where once I hit 36 years of age, the marriage life might prove difficult for me to comprehend. But all this wasn't mean that I will not married at all, just bit difficult. People who actually asking my phone no as well might not feel that it will work out, it will be like all those match making in the past, come and go. However there is one thing that I didn't reveal to people, I felt ready financially to get married in summer 2008. Seriously marriage is no cheap business, I thought RM20K could do a wedding, I was prove wrong by my own marriage. I advised if you are a guy and gonna get married, you might go away with RM20K but RM25K-30K is minimum for all in. That will be hantaran, mas kahwin, and kenduri. But I was lucky my parents pick up my kenduri's bill. Heheh there is something else I blown my budget for. Overall, I felt happy that I manage to tell the world on my marriage and share the joy with families and friend. You can get some pictures from www.ahzadesign.blogspot.com and look for hassan + hayati entries.

So those things done, now my new phase as husband and head of family is begin. So much I am trying to prepare, so many new things I learn. These are things that I personnaly took for granted and thought it will not matter to others. Being married also elevated my thinking process to be more broaden and more perspective on future. It is not easy, I will testament! But with right partner, own open mind, a family building is a great experience. This is just the beginning. Ok me wifey already woke up. Got to go. Mommy in law inviting for lunch at sister in law!.

Sebulan sudah kahwin

My Wedding Reception on 9th May 2009

Dear All,

Please to invite all of you to my wedding reception in Dungun Terengganu. The reception will be on Saturday 9th May 2009. The reception will be from 11am- 5pm. Please find the google map links . Please click on landmarks on the left side to pin point the locations of my house and hotels.

http://maps.google.com/maps/ms?hl=en&ie=UTF8&oe=UTF8&msa=0&msid=107060504229236427054.000464c08b9ef9a555c7b&ll=4.918569,103.4198&spn=0.65538,1.230469&z=10

Ok all the contacts should be there. Anything mail me, there is email n YM in my profile.

I decidedo get married

Cakap tak serupa bikin, bikin tak serupa cakap

Heheh reflection time. It was my birthday last Friday, 31st October. Why I came out with the tittle. Someone point out things that actually related to perspective. My perspective on efforts and actions are complete opposite to the other person. Hahah but this is after 3 weeks. The person actually got acquinted through my office mate. We kind of thought the acquintance is for the relationship building. Funny thing is on second date, I put my views of my personal dream or vision. How I see the relationship etc. On chatting suddenly I saw her status similar to my tittle, when I asked whether it was me? she denied it. Kakakakaka. But yup rather than just walk up away, we manage to agree kind of period for us to know each other. Over the birthday weekend, spent some time with her, and the whole stories of perspective blew up. Hahahah so funny when 2 person can go complete 180 degrees opinion on same actions.

Ok enuff of that, many thanks to friends on the wishes. Penin den all mediums, friendster, facebook, YM, sms, call etc. Appreciate it. Hope a good year ahead.

Want to write more but I think shud be just it. Will see how's life evolve. Many thanks to all the people that shapes my life sofar even to anybody just passes by. All the observations helps.